Hearing your friends push you toward abortion when you’re unsure can create added anxiety to an already challenging situation. And sometimes, the suggestion to abort is a knee-jerk reaction because people aren’t sure how to process the news of an unplanned pregnancy. It’s so helpful to have friends who will support you, and also important to remember that their advice may not be what’s truly best for your health and future.
What to do with your unplanned pregnancy is a decision that belongs to you. No one else will live with the outcome the way you will, which is why it’s worth exploring every option. If you feel stuck, we can help. Contact us to learn about our support services for women navigating unplanned pregnancies.
Pressure Doesn’t Lead to Clarity
When outside voices become too loud, they can blur one’s own thoughts. Pressure from friends—even well-meaning friends—can cause decisions to feel rushed. But lasting peace comes from making a choice that aligns with one’s values, circumstances, and goals.
Setting healthy boundaries may help you create space to think clearly. A simple, “I appreciate your concern, but I need time to think this through,” can give you the room you need.
Learning What Each Option Involves
Abortion, adoption, and parenting all carry different responsibilities and outcomes. Taking the time to understand what each really involves will give you clarity for the path forward.
At Stillwater Life Services, we offer fact-based information about all your options, including what abortion procedures look like, possible risks, and what resources are available for adoption and parenting. Having this information allows you to make an empowered decision, not one based on pressure or uncertainty.
Practical Steps to Help You Decide
Sometimes, breaking things down into small steps can help. Start by confirming your pregnancy through a lab-quality test and an ultrasound. These provide key details such as how far along you are and whether the pregnancy is viable. This information can affect what options are available to you.
Another helpful step is talking through your situation with someone outside your circle of friends—someone trained to provide accurate information and nonjudgmental support.
A Safe Space for Your Questions
At Stillwater Life Services, you can pause outside opinions and focus on what you need. We provide free pregnancy testing, limited ultrasounds, and education on all your options so you can make the decision that feels right for you.
Your friends may have strong opinions, but the final decision is yours. If you’re not ready to choose abortion, it’s okay to take time to explore other paths.
Schedule your confidential appointment with Stillwater Life Services today and find the clarity you deserve.
Stillwater Life Services does not provide or refer for abortions.